# Nostr: How do I choose relays?

Start with relays your client can reach reliably, then consider their rules, retention, cost, location, and support for the NIPs you use.

2026-08-10
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## Short answer

Start with relays your client can reach reliably, then consider their rules, retention, cost, location, and support for the NIPs you use. NIP-11 lets relays advertise metadata, while NIP-65 lets users publish read and write relay choices. A small set of dependable relays often works better than a long list of unreliable ones. Revisit choices if posts or replies are missing.

## Sources

[NIP-11: Relay metadata](https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/blob/master/11.md), [NIP-65: Relay lists](https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/blob/master/65.md).

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Published: 2026-08-10T16:03:15+00:00

Description: A practical answer to How do I choose relays?